Stability
It’s odd to say, I don’t think I’ve ever been this stable.
It probably has a lot to do with some of my circumstances (emotional ones particularly) being stable and going from strength to strength.
I’ve learned how to do the right things for myself and apply a little bit of common sense to what needs to be a priority on the daily level.
I think it also has a bit to do with, ironically, a massively increased tolerance for, and embracing of, the unpredictable.
I’ve also discovered, that if you’re really clear on what you want, there’s a much better chance of you getting it… it’s always worth asking yourself the question just in case - and so that you recognise getting what you want, the times it comes along.
I’d never seen my insecurities as an asset, but if there’s one thing to be said for insecurity, it means you haven’t yet made up your mind. You’re still on the fence, and everything is still possible. And that’s certainly a mindset you can turn to your advantage.